We've had our reception/venue location booked for a couple months now. We thought it was a huge check off of our list. (they are in the same location) However, when we booked the ceremony site wasn't set up and we couldn't see what it looked like.
Last week we did. ::cue instant panic::
It was the most depressing room I have EVER seen. Think of an office boardroom: 8 ft ceilings, some white fabric draped in one corner, the rest you can see flimsy walls. Hard plastic white chairs that belong OUTSIDE. And an arch that has seen better days, and dingy carpet.
FI turned to me in horror and said we can't get married here, and I fully agree. However, now we have to find a church that'll marry non-members.
A non-denominational church just responded to my inquiry by saying they will not marry us unless we live separately, can prove that we do not live together and all dresses (bridal & bridesmaid) has to be approved by them and they can tell you 'no' based on the neckline/length of the dress.
I'm so stressed.