So this weekend we had all my FI's family over for his good luck party and of course everyone started talking about the wedding.
Let me give a short back story first. I have already decided that my sister, my niece and one of my close gf's would be my BP. When we first got engaged my FI had said I should have his niece as a BM which I was on the fence about since I wasn't really that close to her. I suggested I ask one of his cousins, that I actually talked to and hung out with occasionally. Both these ideas were nixed since he didn't really want to ask anyone besides his 3 best friends.
Well yesterday when the wedding was brought up the two of them started talking like they were already in the wedding party and if they weren't they would get similar dresses and act like they were. Now I know they were joking but they both want to be involved and I wouldn't mind having them but that would make 3 BM and 2 MOH which is a bigger wedding then I had ever thought I would have.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to offend his family but I'm not sure if we want a big WP or if he even has a clue who else he would ask.