Hi Ladies, I need to vent and could use some advice as well. Our wedding is 3 months from Friday, we are sending invitations out this month, about 7 months ago we sent out save the dates. My Future MIL recently asked if she could add another 10 people (another table) I told her I was unsure and I would have to check with my parents (they are paying for the entire wedding)..my parents said they would have to crunch some numbers and go through the guest list again...my MIl brought it up AGAIN the other night and said that she really wants these people there and that she would rather pay for their table then not invite them if it wasnt in the budget...while that is a very generous offer, it puts my parents in an awkward spot... my mom feels like it is cheap and bad etiquette to ask her to pay but at the same time it's adding another unexpected $2000 to the total cost only 3 months before the big day...I just wish she had put these people on her list originally 7 months ago so that we could have made our lists accordingly.....sorry just wanted to vent!