Well that was interesting

Stina51286

So either TK is being a B!tch or KJ got the idea that we don't want any of that pre-planning bs here.

Knot Jennifer

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[QUOTE]So either TK is being a B!tch or KJ got the idea that we don't want any of that pre-planning bs here.
Posted by Stina51286[/QUOTE]

Hi,

Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future.

Thanks for the feedback... again!

KJ

formerlyCooper

I'm thinking it was taken down, because I get a "file not found" error message when I use the back button on my browser. If so, I am very glad that Jackie listens, where Knot Jen treated us like three year olds. "I'll let you tell me what you want to do, then I'll tell you what I'm GOING to do." Really listening to adults gets you further and garners you more respect than blatantly ignoring and patronizing them because you're in a position of authority. It seems KJackie and KI are getting wise to this. Kudos to them.

cu97tiger

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[QUOTE]In Response to Well that was interesting : Hi, Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future. Thanks for the feedback... again! KJ
Posted by Knot Jennifer[/QUOTE]

<div>This is a sincere thank you. We know TKs foremost goal is to make money, so I personally really appreciate you not doing it at the cost of a young woman's sanity and best interests.</div>

formerlyCooper

[QUOTE]Hi,Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future.Thanks for the feedback... again! Posted by Knot Jennifer[/QUOTE]
Again, thank you for listening to us. I do like your incarnation of KJ much better than the first one.

EDIT: I also want to add that Tiger has a very good point. Pre planning is not good for any young girl's sanity or her relationships. Everyone suffers, not just the members on the NEY forum that have to talk the pre planners down when their craziness backfires and their relationship dissolves. I've seen it personally many times.

GoldenPenguin

Stina51286

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[QUOTE]In Response to Well that was interesting : Hi, Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future. Thanks for the feedback... again! KJ
Posted by Knot Jennifer[/QUOTE]

Thank you!

buddysmom80

buddysmom80

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_well-that-was-interesting-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:5e0cddd3-eb3c-43a1-a4c0-e5cee1152b33Post:8f68619f-a7c8-4cab-9b85-e3cba5e96ea3">Re: Well that was interesting</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Well that was interesting : Hi, Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future. Thanks for the feedback... again! KJ
Posted by Knot Jennifer[/QUOTE]

BTW-thank you!!!

I agree with Tiger, at the end of the day, TK's job is to make money for brides, including PP's and you're just doing your job but props to taking down the thread!

kmbryant2413

Since Jackifer has been rather involved as of late, would it be worthwhile to ask if the header of the board can be changed to something more appropriate? These ladies could crank out a great one, I bet. I feel like 'You've planned your flowers, found a gown... but no ring (yet?) Welcome to NEY' is misleading and setting up the 'preplanning' idea to the newbs right off the bat..

Peaseblossom55

Thank you for taking down that thread!

peekaboo2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Well that was interesting : Hi, Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future. Thanks for the feedback... again! KJ
Posted by Knot Jennifer[/QUOTE]

<div>ZOMG.  Knot Gods listening to us?  I feel like this is Christmas.</div><div>
</div><div>Thanks Jackifer!  You rock!</div><div>
</div><div>Also, this is who supports preplanning:</div><div><img class="image" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1c1fTEyZ1ql2o66o1_400.gif" alt="" width="500" height="169" /></div><div>
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peekaboo2011

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[QUOTE]Since Jackifer has been rather involved as of late, would it be worthwhile to ask if the header of the board can be changed to something more appropriate? These ladies could crank out a great one, I bet. I feel like 'You've planned your flowers, found a gown... but no ring (yet?) Welcome to NEY' is misleading and setting up the 'preplanning' idea to the newbs right off the bat..
Posted by kmbryant2413[/QUOTE]

<div>Can we change it to "We talk about poop a lot"?</div>

desertsun

I missed the thread, but I actually don't mind the tagline of the board. There ARE people who preplan, and this IS the right place for them to come to talk through it. 

GoldenPenguin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well that was interesting : True. Maybe we can change it to "You've planned your flowers, found a gown...but no ring (yet)? You're fluckign crazy and need to stop it right now. Welcome to NEY."
Posted by buggle2[/QUOTE]

I actually snorted. Thank you.

cu97tiger

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well that was interesting : True. Maybe we can change it to "You've planned your flowers, found a gown...but no ring (yet)? You're fluckign crazy and need to stop it right now. Welcome to NEY."
Posted by buggle2[/QUOTE]

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thejucheidea

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[QUOTE]In Response to Well that was interesting : Hi, Met with the team. We are going to do our best to keep those requests off the boards in the future. Thanks for the feedback... again! KJ
Posted by Knot Jennifer[/QUOTE]

<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3aed504af467e593c416d05def2e7ec4/tumblr_mkn2lfr56O1rkm4r8o1_500.gif" alt="" />

Peaseblossom55

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well that was interesting : True. Maybe we can change it to "You've planned your flowers, found a gown...but no ring (yet)? You're fluckign crazy and need to stop it right now. Welcome to NEY."
Posted by buggle2[/QUOTE]
Love it!

ravenray

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_well-that-was-interesting-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:5e0cddd3-eb3c-43a1-a4c0-e5cee1152b33Post:438ac012-bed8-4933-a83d-feb144f900fb">Re: Well that was interesting</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well that was interesting : True. Maybe we can change it to "You've planned your flowers, found a gown...but no ring (yet)? You're fluckign crazy and need to stop it right now. Welcome to NEY."
Posted by buggle2[/QUOTE]
Yes!  I love this!<div>
</div><div>KJ thank you so much for taking it down!  You rock for listening to us.</div>