Being Judgey

Ajuliana

Things I have judged in relation to other peoples weddings I've experienced: women pretending to be pregnant to get their boyfriends to propose (3 girls in 6 months!);  girls NOT from the country, or raised on a farm, insisting on their wedding party wearing boots; telling parents what they are supposed to pay for; being invited with a "and guest" when you very clearly know my FIs name; and my biggest Peeve ever...women who use the word "classy" to describe their dress, venue, vibe, theme, photography, church, flowers, etc. 

I get it.  You think classy means something, when really it is an empty word now.  

lyndausvi

I judge people who say "friend as always been a flake and late for everything". then get upset because said friend is a BM and being a flake and late for appointments.      Like somehow being a BM is going to change them.

TKzilla

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[QUOTE]Things I have judged in relation to other peoples weddings I've experienced: women pretending to be pregnant to get their boyfriends to propose (3 girls in 6 months!);  girls NOT from the country, or raised on a farm, insisting on their wedding party wearing boots; telling parents what they are  supposed to pay for; being invited with a "and guest" when you very clearly know my FIs name; and my biggest Peeve ever...women who use the word "classy" to describe their dress, venue, vibe, theme, photography, church, flowers, etc.  I get it.  <strong>You think classy means something, when really it is an empty word now.  </strong>
Posted by Alaynajuliana[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>There was a drunk sorority girl at a party FI and I threw when we were dating who kept randomly yelling at people "SHUT UP I'M A CLASSY FLUCKING B!TCH" Every time I hear "classy" I think of her LMAO

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spedteach4life

I've never understood the lace and burlap trend either.

I am looking into the Fort Worth Stockyards as my venue which I guess some people could claim is "rustic" (don't like that either).  I just like how it is a more relaxed looking venue that can still be dressed up a little.  That and I've had a lot of great memories there so why not add another one.  

If we didn't have the stockyards I definitely would not be seeking out a barn to get married in... ick!  I love barns, grew up riding horses and mucking stalls.... never would I choose a barn to get married in.  

glitterunicorn13

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Being Judgey : There was a drunk sorority girl at a party FI and I threw when we were dating who kept randomly yelling at people "SHUT UP I'M A CLASSY FLUCKING B!TCH" Every time I hear "classy" I think of her LMAO
Posted by CourtaniaLynn[/QUOTE]
YES, haha..... if you have to tell people you are "classy" then you are really just Klassy...OH and drunk, too.  NICE!  <div>
</div><div>I am so sick of that word "classy"..... Yes, I think I judge that a little...</div>

TKzilla

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[QUOTE]I'm feeling bullied by Ally stalking me just to post about how mean she thinks I am.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

<div>Wanna hug? Do a trust fall? If you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here for you. :D</div>

krizzo17

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Being Judgey : YES, haha..... if you have to tell people you are "classy" then you are really just Klassy...OH and drunk, too.  NICE!   I am so sick of that word "classy"..... Yes, I think I judge that a little...
Posted by glitterunicorn13[/QUOTE]


"Being classy is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you're not."

(I have no idea who said that)

Jlp818

Barn weddings have become a big thing in our area too.  While I don't judge them I do always have to decline because I am highly allergic to all of the hay and burlap decor.   

TKzilla

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[QUOTE]Barn weddings have become a big thing in our area too.  While I don't judge them I do always have to decline because I am highly allergic to all of the hay and burlap decor.  :( 
Posted by Jlp818[/QUOTE]

<div>I think I'm allergic to the word "rustic"</div>

kmbryant2413

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Being Judgey: Can I send your Gramma some cookies?
Posted by EllaYoung[/QUOTE]

<div>I wish. You can send me some with her in mind though ;) I won't object.</div>

glitterunicorn13

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Being Judgey : "Being classy is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you're not." (I have no idea who said that)
Posted by krizzo17[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>AND, now the word "vintage" (eventhough I am a fan) can get some very scary interpretations. Please, oh please overdone fairies don't take "vintage" from us!  I am amazed at the stuff that looks like it came straight from the trashcan that people call "vintage"---I want to say, NO HONEY, it is NOT vintage, it is gross and was on that neighbor no one likes curb- come on tell us the truth.</div><div>
</div><div>Now I must judge myself for using that particular word 4 times, oh dear...</div>

princess pop

I want a pair of jellies now. Thanks for giving me something to find during work, guys!

glitterunicorn13

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[QUOTE]I want a pair of jellies now. Thanks for giving me something to find during work, guys! :)
Posted by princess pop[/QUOTE]
YAY Jellies!!!!  Great for the honeymoon!!!  OK, now I need some.