I paid for my friend and her daughter's flower girl dress with the promise of her paying me back.saying she was really excited to be in the wedding..she kept saying the check was in the mail and we never got it over the past 3 monthes. This bridesmaid and I got in an argument the other night, not over money..but anyways her and daughters are out of the wedding now we are out $250..the dress had never been worn and is still at the bridal shop. What should I do? There is a small balance but hosetly my FI and I don't want to pay anything else for it. We just want to get our money back!