I
don't want to micromanage my MoH and bridesmaids, but I am a little concerned about a couple of things. The last thing I want is to offend them and be controlling.
One of them wears her hair really, really short. When she first gets it cut it's almost shaved, I think it looks a little nicer when it's grown out a bit. Is there any way to subtly and nicely let her know I prefer if she gets a haircut a few weeks before the wedding, not right before?
Another bridesmaid sometimes doesn't always blend her makeup very well (and she wears some bright colors). Could I give out a little giftbag with makeup in soft colors for all the girls as part of their bridesmaids gifts (and not say anything about them having to wear it for the wedding)? Or would this still come accross as being pushy?
I know how it feels to be micromanaged and I hated it. (I couldn't dye my hair and wasn't supposed to tan for a couple months before a wedding), so I really don't want my friends to feel that way. If I can find something sweet rather than pushy I'll do it. Otherwise, I won't sweat the small stuff.