I have been engaged for 8mts now, our wedding isnt for another year and a half so i havent asked anyone to be in the wedding yet. I have a best friend MALE who i have known for over 13 years. We had already discussed having him as a Man of Honor, but im not sure if he would fullfill all the "Maid-of Honor duties" ie- fluff dress, help in the planning process etc... I have a female friend who i know would do an amazing job BUT i did make a packt way back when we were kids that he would be my maid of honor (i would feel guilty, even if he didnt mind, that i left him out). Now hes asking if he is still being the "man of honor" im not sure what to do. the Fi isnt to fond of the idea of having a, as he calles it "miss matched wedding party" he is 3 brothers and 1 sister (so i said she could now stand on his side) so it would be mine on my side and his on his side -
If we go with the traditional boys on one side girls on the other what do i do with my MAN of HONOR situation?
nix the idea?
how do i tell him i picked someone else?
Can i have a Maid and Man of honor- if so how would that work?