So the trend has been joint co-ed bachelor/bachlorette parties around where I live but my FI and I decided to have seperate ones..he has a ton on cousins and friends that are going while I'm only having my bridal party for certain reasons..my friends live far away and can't attend. My FI doesn't go out a lot..and when he gets drunk he can get out of control. I'm just worried they are going to go to a strip club or who knows what...I don't want to be embarrased walking up the aisle in front of all of his cousins..does anyone have those worries??