I am a Wuss (**sigh**)

island07b2b

I won't receive my invitations until May and they won't go out until June and ALREADY I've been "persuaded" into adding someone onto the invite list that I had no plans on inviting. 

It wasn't that I didn't want the person to come but I really wanted only family members and close family friends but this person is a lot of fun and we get along great at workout classes. She's been hinting, no telling me, that she is expecting an invite several times now.   So finally I get a text last night from her again about her invite.  Finallly I just asked for her address.  I guess she's getting an invite. 

WUSSSYY!!!   I can't even tell The Dude what happened.  

Dannitra01

You've gotta be strong girl. lolz.I know how it can be.

nursing2u

Yes... you need to be strong.... Just remember, every additional person you add is ($$$$) x the additional people...

I know it's hard.. but IF you can swing it... then don't sweat it... or you can do what I did... I only ordered a certain number or invitations... so once they are all gone... THEY'RE GONE..

tirathemrs

AWWWW i hope it all works out but i knw that can be frustrating hopefully she at least brings a decent gift ijs

keysmit

LOl. I've done the same thing.. It will be ok.. if you enjoy her presence, hey why not. It will all work out..

MrsHoward2Be

She's bold!!! Stay strong girl.

nbrown501

 I guess im a Wuss too. I told FI that me and the girls are working on the invitations tonight over drinks and he mention he has two more names to add to the list. SMH. Today is the Complete Cutoff!!!

aquari0216

atleast you like her...folks tryna get me to invite ppl who i dont like.....hellz no!

CreoleBride30

LOL!  It'll be okay. However, you have to be strong.  My fav go to line was "Awww. Girl that so sweet you want to come and I truly would love for you to be there, but because of space and financial limitations, we can not invite everyone that we want to be there.  I hope you understand". 

I guess for me I was okay with saying we can't financially afford it...most people will understand that unless they think you are made of money!

Cha

island07b2b

Thanks ladies.  You all made me feel better. 

[Deleted User]

{{imma be the dude for a sec}}

'LETTE!!!!???  DAMMIT WOMAN!!  did we or did we NOT have this conversation already??

no matter how hard they press, DON'T feed the trolls and vagrants.   smh.

{{back to b's voice}} feel better?  lol.   tell me it's just her (no plus one) or imma get you together myself.