So will I notice any differences?
You know the famous "we're not gay married--we're married." Well are there circumstances where your same-sexness or queerness stood out for you in the wedding planning?
When it comes to my partner and I--we are planning to host a backyard wedding where we will say our vows and then have an upscale barbeque (I do catering). So there won't be any of that "this is a same-sex wedding, is that okay?" when it comes to photographers, venues, ceremonies, etc.
I also live in Canada.