50-60 guests, ceremony with sand between toes, rolled up pant legs, guests flip flops, laid back reception BBQ or buffet (quality of food important), back up plan if rain (venue have outside porch), wedding tent on site would be ideal... budget $5-6K ... doable? Thought about home wedding but cost to rent tent, tables, linens approx $1,500. Please help me plan my dream wedding... Love, gail