Hi all! I need some help. My fiance and i have been together for more than 6 years. And in that time hes cheated on me with a handful of girls that i KNOW about (because theyve told me). Last year i found out he cheated on me again and i wanted to break up completely and i didnt talk to him but we had a important family trip planned and im not the type to ruin important things for others so i went along. He proposed and i said yes. It was more of a reflex than an actual well thought out "yes i want to spend the rest of my life with this man". But i felt like "maybe things have changed". Broken record i know but i went along. About 8 months or so into planning the wedding i find out about another infidelity. I want to call off the wedding and i give him back his ring but he doesnt accept it. He cries and begs me to stay. Im at my wits end. I dont know what else to do. I think marriage counseling would b hugely beneficial but i dont know of any in my area or any one whose gone to one who could recommend one. Im not religious so i dont want a preacher or church to give me advice. If anyone knows of a counselor in palm beach county id really appreciate it. Another thing is my fiance doesnt believe it will help and is against therapy.
what to do???