My daughters were invited to be flower girls by the bride. We accepted and will be traveling (via plane and staying in a hotel) across a time zone to attend. We recently received the wedding invitations and it was clear that the flower girls are not invited to the reception. It is an afternoon wedding with the reception immediately following the ceremony at the same location. I double-checked with the bride and there are no areas for the children to be watched during the reception. I am not familiar with wedding etiquette. Is this common practice? I understand it is her preference and I don't want to pursue requesting an exception for the flower girls. I am just trying to get a feel for if this is common and courteous. Hoping you can help!