Hi Knotties- I'm in need of some advice.... again. Originally when my fiancé and infound our wedding venue we thought getting married by the gazebo in the commons right next door would be perfect. Outdoor ceremony right before sunset in mid September in Salem, MA. We put our deposit in with the hotel. Everything was great till my dad talked me into wanting to get married at th church that's up the street. We've met with the priest, so this an option. I am leaning towards wanting to get married in the church- although we don't go to church every week I did growing up and after confirmation I taught religion for a couple years- i even attended church at college (and I didn't go to a catholic school). I think getting married in a church is more affordable, less planing, no need to rent chairs or worry about weather. Although we did have a plan b if it rained we could move the ceremony inside the hotel. So here lies my problem. My fiancé says the decision is up to me then last night at dinner after a couple drinks hensays he really doesn't want to get married at church he wants to get married outside with the sun shining on him.... I think both locations would be beautiful but leaving it up to mother nature scares me and i also think I might regret not making the sacrament of marriage in a church... What should I do??