Wedding Invitations & Paper

deadline for responses past

The requested date for our RSVP's to be sent back was April 6th and there are still A LOT out there. Now it isn't a huge deal for them to not be here for another week because we don't finalize with the reception hall until then but still a little worried. How many responses did you guys get after the requested date? Should we just consider those we haven't received not coming? I don't understand what is hard about sending back a stamped card. Just mark yes or no. Especially when we sent out save the dates. Ugh I just don't get it.

Re: deadline for responses past

  • You need to call those people and find out. We didn't get any responses SENT after the date, but we did get several yeses from the people who didn't RSVP when we called to ask. 
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • Yeah, it's rude that they didn't respond in time, but your only option is to call and pin them down.  Best wishes!
  • Gotcha. Will do. Thanks ladies!!
  • We receieved a couple in the day or two after our RSVP date, but none after that.  

    Be polite when you call.  We actually ended up having two that got lost in the mail.  It may not be their fault.  
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