The Knot etiquette says that save the dates should have the actual people you want to invite on the address but what if the person isn't seeing anyone now and they are older (40-50)? Is it okay to put "& Guest" then or should you just put their name and if they want to bring one more person they will ask when they get the invitation? i don't want them to believe that i don't think they can find someone to come with them but also don't want them to feel obligated to have a date if they really don't want to.... Do i have to call / email them to find out if they plan to bring someone to my wedding a year away?
Also in the case of the save the dates only can i put people from the same household on one envelope? There is no need for the parents, their 19 year old daughter and their 22 year old son who live in the same house to all get magnetic save the dates....
for example:
Mr. & Mrs. John Doe
Ms. Jane Doe
Mr. David Doe
22 Main Street
Townville, NY 55555
Let me know what you think - i am open to suggestions on the matter... Thanks