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So with only 4 days till 1 month from our wedding we stil have over 30+ invites still not returned. I have been beating myself up over the past week thinking how could i have prevented this but we sent out the invitations end of February and a second set mid march. So why can't people just respond! We have invited approx 110 people and we have a set 60 for our venue. I really don't wan to panic or freak out but it is clearly labeled and stamped just RSVP already!
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    You might be having the same problem I'm having; I think I mailed mine out too early. I'm worried that people will forget about it or lose them by the time they're due. 

    What due date did you put on the rsvp? If it has passed, I'd start calling people.


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    May 1st for the RSVP date. The entire month of April I got 3 back....but it does seem like I'll be calling people
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    uggggh tell me about it . i sent mine out end of march..... i got half back though... i will be calling people... i just will never understand whats so hard aboiut yes no chicken shrimp or steak! worst part is most my wedding party hasnt even sent them back!!! just tell me wat ur eating!!!!
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    We still have 2 weeks until our RSVP's are supposed to be returned, but have only gotten 5 responses back...boo! So many people have called or text and I even got one Facebook message for a response! We pretty much already knew who could and couldn't come, except for a few people, but it's still really exciting to get the mail and find one of our little brown envelopes. I would really appreciate it if everyone could just go ahead and send them back, mostly for my own silly, I love getting the mail reasons!!!!!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2013-weddings_rsvp-already?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f30b0bfc-508d-415c-bf59-ab83e327da37Discussion:6cd72dbe-357d-40d0-a1d7-c18052d840b4Post:8e179d48-64f6-4205-a008-a61b0fb7eac7">RSVP already!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]So with only <strong>4 days till 1 month from our wedding</strong> we stil have over 30+ invites still not returned. I have been beating myself up over the past week thinking how could i have prevented this but we <strong>sent out the invitations end of February</strong> <strong>and a second set mid march.</strong> So why can't people just respond! We have invited approx 110 people and we have a set 60 for our venue. I really don't wan to panic or freak out but it is clearly labeled and stamped just RSVP already!
    Posted by tophexie[/QUOTE]

    <div>You sent them out <strong><u>way too early.</u></strong> And why a second set? </div>

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    In Response to Re:RSVP already!!:[QUOTE]In Response to RSVP already!!:So with only 4 days till 1 month from our wedding we stil have over 30 invites still not returned. I have been beating myself up over the past week thinking how could i have prevented this but we sent out the invitations end of February and a second set mid march. So why can't people just respond! We have invited approx 110 people and we have a set 60 for our venue. I really don't wan to panic or freak out but it is clearly labeled and stamped just RSVP already!Posted by tophexieYou sent them out way too early. And why a second set?nbsp; Posted by brita722[/QUOTE]

    This, exactly.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2013-weddings_rsvp-already?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:f30b0bfc-508d-415c-bf59-ab83e327da37Discussion:6cd72dbe-357d-40d0-a1d7-c18052d840b4Post:789532bb-9456-4235-8a15-b4898667813a">Re: RSVP already!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to RSVP already!! : You sent them out way too early. And why a second set? 
    Posted by brita722[/QUOTE]

    Yup, this.
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    edited May 2013
    I sent mine out in mid-March (just under 3 months till the wedding) and I know it might be early but I am having the same problem. We only have 25 out of 60 responces. I had to send them out in March cause I'm a student who is planning the wedding from afar (Southern CA wedding, graduate school in Bay Area). If I didn't mail them during my Spring Break then it would have been bad. I was really hoping to limiting the phone calls cause that would be one less thing to do when I am finally done with the semester. And I REALLY hope the mail isn't acting weird and making me worry for nothing.
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