My husband and I are already married, but he's in the Air Force so we did a courthouse wedding in September and we're having our big family wedding on May 25th. His parents are now backing out of paying for the rehearsal dinner, even though that's their only task (luckily, I haven't sent out invites yet, I was getting to them this week!) I don't know how to word it exactly on the invitations that guests will have to pay for themselves? I'm LIVID that they're backing out of this because they did the exact same thing for my bridal shower. I'm afraid if I try to word it myself, it's going to come off as rude and bitchy. How would you word it? TIA for all the help, ladies!