Need help....

MMPhoenix11

So here's my problem that I need help with...

Background info:
My fiancé and I are planning on getting married next summer. We've changed our wedding plans three times already. We're both getting married for a second time too. We finally decided (I hope) on a location and the invitation list... but the problem is I really want the children there. We have no children together each from our previous marriage.

My problem is this:
Do to some legal issues, not all of the children can (currently) be in the same place at the same time. I want them to be there, but don't know how to have 5 of the 6 there without leaving one out...

Do we just not have the children there at all? This is breaking my heart, because I wanted my boys to "give me away" this time... For it to be something special for them too.

please help... this broken hearted mom, is looking for an answer to this problem...

radleyboo

Legal issues?  Unfortunately, I don't think there's any advice anyone can give you here unless one of the girls on this board is an Attorney in Ohio.  If I were in your shoes, I'd do everything I could to sort out any legal (or other) issues before getting married.  Not having all of your children together at the same time is going to cause problems for a lot of other occasions, not just your wedding.  Get that sorted out, then plan your wedding.  You'll be glad you did.  

MikesAngie

Is it a custody issue or something more serious that is preventing all the children from being together?  Was there an altercation between the children, or with the parents?  

What are the ages of the childern?  Participating in a wedding if they are very little won't hold any real meaning for them, if they are older then the choice to participate should be up to them.

This might be one of those talk to your chilldren and see what they are okay with deals.