) September 6, 2013
Hi knotties! I just needed help on this issue.
This Jan, I assigned one of my maids of honor to monitor the maids on dress buying because I could get no communication or responses from my fiance's side. He had 2 sisters and a cousin in the wedding as bridesmaids. That was fine but when i text or email any update or decision on the dress, They never would respond. I just thought that was rude because if you don't respond, How do i know you received my messages. So eventually one of his sisters dropped out. That was fine less stress for me. Now My maid of honor set a deadline to purchase the dress this past Jan so everyone can know how long they have before they have to purchase the dress. (of course no responses from his family. and yes we checked if we had the correct email address) The deadline was April 15 to buy your dress, because we want to be sure you will get it on time and have space for error. The dress i choose is being hand made and i have 5 girls, Also the maker has a business and have other customers. Not to mention it is wedding and Prom season. All the emails explained why we should order the dress on the assigned date.
Ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Today his cousin and sister still haven't ordered their dresses. His sis even ask him to have me call her(i don't know why she didn't call me directly, she has my number)So even though I didn't want to call i did. She ask what was the email to the lady for the dresses! Even after she had received atleaset 20! updates and reminders. Now I just graciously answered I'm not sure if you check your email, My maid of honor should already emailed it to you and if not email her and she can send it to you. I'm not being mean but I'm past this dress and working on other things. I changed the dress because his sisters complained about style and price. I'm tired of accommodating everyone else and their not appreciating it.
So my question is should i be a little upset? and am i wrong for telling her to contact who's in charge of the dresses?