My FI and I are both Jewish, but both observe at different levels. We both have family members who are very religious that will be attending our wedding and we are stuck on how to proceed.
Out of our 200 guests, 10 keep kosher (and my FFIL is a vegan). We weren't sure whether to have an entirely kosher wedding to accommodate those few guests, or if it would be acceptable to offer a vegan option (which we will be catering out for so we can ensure that it is kosher) as the kosher option. It would save a lot of money for us to not have a kosher wedding, but we aren't sure if the extra money will be worth making our family upset.
For our ceremony, my FI and I are having a difficult time deciding what would be best for us. I would prefer a more traditional ceremony, and we would like a more relaxed one that we can personalize. If anyone has any experience with combining the two, I would love to hear about it!