Dear FH,
I know you don't think we need to think about the logistics of moving in together after the wedding right now, and while I agree with you, it won't hurt to at least sort of think about it.
Love,
Your planner-crazy-type-A FW
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Dear Work,
Please tell me where I will be moving next sooner rather than later. Please pay for FH to come out and apartment hunt with me. Please ask me to move towards the beginning of August.
Sincerely,
I Picked a Wedding Date Based on My Work Schedule