We've invited about 100 guests (sent out about 50 invites, so many are couples/families). I've posted about this before, but FI and I have lived together for 3 years, have an established household, and really don't need anything. We weren't going to register at all, but my parents eventually pushed us to do it, saying that they were uncomfortable telling people we are "saving for our honeymoon" and that people want to bring a "real gift." So we registered at BB&B, and there are currently 18 items on our list (ranging in price from $4 to $200, mostly items under $50). Honestly, though, it was a struggle to find that many things. Is an 18-item registry too small for a wedding with 100 guests? Almost everyone knows we've been living together for years and could probably use cash. Obviously, of course, people absolutely do not need to bring a gift at all, nor do we expect them to! I guess my question is whether I really do need to follow store guidelines and register for at least my number of guests and whether my registry is ridiculously small...
ETA: I'm not having a shower, either.
