So my fiance and I are getting married in October. We are registered and everything since we are in the process of buying a house. He really wanted a jack and jill so my bridal party is planning one. But i was told there was no point in registering since people pay for the jack and jill. We really need stuff for our house! If i am having a jack and jill I dont have a shower right? Do people still buy you gifts for a jack and jill? Should we have not registered?