My MOH and mom have graciously offered to throw me a shower. They've been planning it together, and the invites have gone out. It's supposed to be a surprise, which is awesome, but presents a problem.
How am I supposed to schedule my life around this without ruining the surprise? FI knows when it is and isn't allowed to tell me, which is good, I don't want to know! FI and I are SUPER busy. We've been trying to figure out when we can accomplish x, y, z, and there's not enough time to do it all. The shower is most likely on a weekend. FI and I managed to plan a couple weekends where we can go visit his OOT family. Those weekends don't conflict with the shower. There are some other random days that we might have stuff going on, but according to him, those days are still fine. That doesn't leave too many options. There is still A LOT to be done, and a lot of people to meet with. I need to figure out how I can schedule other meetings without blowing the surprise of when the shower is.
For those who've been in this situation, how did you deal with it? Thanks for your help!