How kinky are you really?

MoonlightSilver

Are knotties more kinky than the general population? Inquiring minds want to know.

ETA: If your kink doesn't fit into the poll options, I apologize. Feel free to share below. 

MoonlightSilver

Different people have different views of what being kinky / into BDSM means. There may be people who consider their use of dirty words to be super kinky.

AddieCake

I don't like that I can't check more than one option!

ETA: Also, my present relationship has a different BDSM level than my previous one, so are we talking NOW or EVER?

MoonlightSilver

I tried to find a way to check multiple ones, but I don't think that's an option with polls. One more thing to ask the KGs about later. 

@addieL73 How you answer the poll is up to you! 

AddieCake

Ditto Stage. 

MoonlightSilver

I did interchange kinky and BDSM, which I probably shouldn't have done. Early morning posting, ya know? 

ETA: And my curiosity was based upon multiple people in Let's Talk about Sex mentioning they're into submission. 

As a side note, it's so cocking annoying that I can't right click on my notifications to open a new tab.

AddieCake

Most people who are not familiar with it assume BDSM is only all about kinky sex. There are levels of it that have nothing to do with sex, though. 

rel1988

FI would be mortified if I ask him to do BDSM. I tease him and call him my Nilly Vanilly. He's nowhere near as crazy as previous sex partners but I don't need that to be sexually satisfied and I wouldn't want him to be uncomfortable.

Peledreamsofrain

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peekaboo2011

We're at a -5 on the kink scale lately. Maybe I should go read the sex thread for ideas on how to kink it up.

MoonlightSilver

Just please don't read any Cosmo articles on how to be kinky. 

peekaboo2011

No, Cosmo articles on how to be kinky are laughable.  I did apparently learn how to give an awesome BJ from one of their articles though.  Everything else that comes out of them seems awkward though.

Peledreamsofrain

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AddieCake

Hahahaha @ "poke him with feathers." 

Peledreamsofrain

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QueerFemme

StageManager14 said:

Most people who are not familiar with it assume BDSM is only all about kinky sex. There are levels of it that have nothing to do with sex, though. 

This is true. They also think it's about power, but it's truly about trust. I like to get spanked, and I like to be submissive. But there are plenty of times when H chooses specifically not to spank when he's in a Dom role because he's withholding something I like. And there's plenty of times when I ask for it when we're having otherwise vanilla sex. We actually have a variety of kink in our sex life, and while D/s plays a big role and so does bondage, it's relatively light on the S&M portion of it. And the D/s play doesn't extend past the bedroom. Nor is it every time.

@stagemanager14.  I'm a little bit in love with you that you appropriately capitalized the D/s.