Okay Girls... I need some advice. I am looking forward to using the cake pull/ ribbon pulling tradition where charms are baked into the cake and then pulled out by selected ladies by the bride. As the bride I'm having a hard time trying to decide what the criteria should be for the ladies I choose to participate. I wanted to use it as another way to acknowledge those special ladies in my life that could not be bridesmaids... so how do I choose those ladies and should I make sure to include my bridesmaids in the tradition too? With everything, the list is starting to get out of control with "The Moms" adding people to the list and in turn making it not as special. So I would love some advice.... traditionally it was only for single ladies so not sure if I should keep with that theme? Thank You!!