Since FI and I are both farm kids, there is a lot of acreage and big ticket equipment to account for in potential future inheritance. We have always said we wanted a prenuptial agreement to essentially state that if we part, my family's property and inheritance stays with my family, and his family's stays with his. Very reasonable IMO.
I had a car issue at FFILs house, and since I live a few hours away, my dad went over the next day to wait for AAA at FFILs house. They got to talking, and FFIL brought up his own prenuptial idea. If FI dies before me, all of his inheritance goes to his brothers. Regardless of if we are still happily married. Or have children. Or have invested it in a home.
Am I validated in being totally pissed at his proposal?
**FI had not been told this previously, and when my dad called me about it, FI was very blunt that he wouldn't sign any such prenup, and neither would I.**