This si just an idea im throwing out there that we are using and maybe you can too. One of our groomsman has asked us if we could have one or two get togethers before the actual rehearsal dinner so that way the wedding party can get to know eachother a little bit before our wedding. So that way it wasnt too akward for them and they can be more themselves. I personally think this is a great idea. So now im sharing for you alk to enjoy. Hipe it hepls!