SO and I are supposed to be getting married the first weekend of August. However, today he found out he'd been laid off of his job and we know we won't make ends meet with only my income. We are considering delaying the wedding probably a whole year so he can find a new job and we can get our financial footing back on ground. However, I'm worried it may be too late to change the date. We haven't sent out invitations yet, but people have made plans to come down for the wedding... would it be wrong to ask people to change their plans. If it weren't an emergency we really wouldn't even consider it, but we really don't want to start our lives together until we have more solid ground.