My Fiance and I work at the same place, not to a big company, but to many people to invite to a wedding. My fiance and I are paying for the wedding ourselfs so we decided no one from work instead only a couple work people. Now my aunt is throwing me a bridal shower and she is pushing me to invite some of the girls from work. I really want too but I don't know if there is a way without it looking tacky or distasteful. I was thinking I could write no gifts on the invites. I don't want it to seem like I'm just in it for the presents. These women are my friends and they have seen my relationship grow with my fiance, its not their fault were broke. Is there a tasteful way to invite people to a bridal shower even though they are not invited to the wedding?