Has anyone found that they are arguing more now since the wedding is getting closer? Its either the stress of the wedding, or stress of marriage, or something. we are having little arguments at least once a week. We have been together for 8 years so maybe that might have to do with it. And also we have two children.
Re: Arguments
FI and I haven't been arguing but its almost like stress related tension. We haven't been holding hands in the car and both just try and stay out of the others way. I am trying to not take it personally we both just have so much on our plates right now.
I am also all of a sudden really afraid of being married. Not for any logical reasons.
Same here and I think it's honestly just stress and the subconcious realization/fear around the commitment. It's all fun and games to put on a pretty wedding dress, have everyone oohing and awwing over you being a bride, getting married, etc., but it's a whole other reality to be married and committed in the very real day-to-day. Forever.
FI and I have been engaged basically 90 percent of the time we've been dating. We got engaged after 7 weeks (it will be 8 months almost to the date when we get married). That's been really easy for me to accept but once we moved in together things got more stressful for both of us.
We've had a LOT of change in a short period of time, plus this non-stop second job of wedding planning, and all the money that goes into it, and I got a new job (that I am miserable at).
I for one am looking forward to getting married and moving on from the wedding life. I have loved and appreciated the process and the fun of it all, but really, we're ready to just be married at this point.
I suspect I'll regret rushing it along when it's over and I'm bored though LOL.
Hahaha this made me really LOL
DATE TWINS!!
It's pretty bad I'm becoming a nervous wreck so mu face Is full on broken out for him to pick at ):I have fun plucking his chest ingrowns... Yea, we are gross