I searched among the numerous existing Spanx comments and couldn't find quite what I need. I'm hoping you ladies can help!
The question: what to wear under the dress?
The issue is that it is a mostly outside, August New England wedding (read: possibly very hot). My dress is strapless, mermaid-like fit with a dipped back and all over ruching. I'm a 32/34DD+ though, so I definitely need some support. I'm wondering what will be coolest but make me feel supported at the same time. (I've tried on Spanx, and while I'd love a little help in the stomach area, I didn't feel like it made any noticeable shape difference, which makes that a non-factor.) I've found a long-line bra that fits well, but I haven't been able to try it on with the dress yet to see if the seamstress needs to shorten the back so that it won't show. I tried the dress on at two different places: one said absolutely go with a bra, and the other said no-way. What would you do if you've used any combination of the above?
Edit: for spelling where the program would let me and to remove "XP."
XP: Spanx vs. long-line bra 7 votes
Spanx and sewn-in cups are the way to go - thinner spans actually helps you to be more comfortable in the heat.
It may be hotter in Spanx, but the botton of any long bra is going to create a visible line.
Well-fitting long-line bra (even tailored for a lower back) and panties will be just fine/more comfortable.
Neither of these really fit, so I'll explain my advice.