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Thank you cards....my hand hurts.....anybody else feel my pain...

There must be an easier way....who told me to invite 200 people.....now I am writing 85million thank you cards....anybody else feel my pain...
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Re: Thank you cards....my hand hurts.....anybody else feel my pain...

  • Lol...I only have to write 20..thank you Jesus. Waiting for pro pics so I can make my thank you cards on vista print.
  • Girl i made them joints on Vista print with my 17 for 70..... But girl. ... writing them out got me bout to gouge my eyes out with a dull spoon.
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  • Girl! A mess!!!! I hand wrote and personalized all my TY notes and let me tell you, it was a pain pain pain!  I do NOT miss that part of the wedding planning.  

    Cha
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  • Lol..aww poor baby. Well luckily I only have 20 people who gave some sort of gift. All but 2 were monetary gifts. Have fun hun !
  • Question to you ladies?!?!? Should u sent thank you cards to the ppl who didnt give a gift considering you thanked them  for coming when you walked around from table to table at the wedding??

    Dumb question i knw but i was just wondering that....

    Lilypie - H1jI


    Daisypath - MFL5



  • Not a dumb qyestion at all I'm sending to everyone. I just wrote personal note to thank them specifically for what they gave. Everyone that did not give a gift got a generic one.
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  • Ya'll are working way too hard - 200 people = 100 cards, you do 50 the groom does 50.  I mean that's still a crapload of writing but are ya'll really doing this by yourselves?  shyt. Like if I'm in charge of dinner/the cooking, don't nobody get a plate until I get back 10 cards.  bam, 40 left.  Now when you get the inevitable:  "I don't feel like doing this or it's too much work"  you just nod and tell him that's okay babe, it's not like you didn't already do your share, {use auto-sarcasm voice here} as. my. partner.  helping me with the other 99.9% of the wedding.   no problem.  then turn and go put his plate in the fridge.  marriage is about blackmai...uh, I mean compromise.  Cheese.  lol!   No but for real, hand him a stack, it was his wedding too.
  • LeciaBLeciaB member
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    Ya'll are working way too hard - 200 people = 100 cards, you do 50 the groom does 50.  I mean that's still a crapload of writing but are ya'll really doing this by yourselves?  shyt. Like if I'm in charge of dinner/the cooking, don't nobody get a plate until I get back 10 cards.  bam, 40 left.  Now when you get the inevitable:  "I don't feel like doing this or it's too much work"  you just nod and tell him that's okay babe, it's not like you didn't already do your share, {use auto-sarcasm voice here} as. my. partner.  helping me with the other 99.9% of the wedding.   no problem.  then turn and go put his plate in the fridge.  marriage is about blackmai...uh, I mean compromise.  Cheese.  lol!   No but for real, hand him a stack, it was his wedding too.

     

    love the words of wisdom... expecially this "  "I don't feel like doing this or it's too much work"  you just nod and tell him that's okay babe, it's not like you didn't already do your share, {use auto-sarcasm voice here} as. my. partner.  helping me with the other 99.9% of the wedding.   no problem.  then turn and go put his plate in the fridge.  No but for real, hand him a stack, it was his wedding too


    Daisypath - (PNE7)
  • yo Leesh, don't pay me no mind, I ain't got n'air one husband to speak of.  lol.  but what kills me about man-logic/I don't feel like it/want to is:  who the hell FEELS like writing thank you cards.   sing while you make your way back to the kitchen, his colla finna be t-i-g-h-t.  please don't hesitate to borrow one of my favorite tunes:  we were having steak tonight too, such a shame.  lol!!
  • Just a correction. ... we are doing them together. I just don't want to do them at all. ... not my half but his half. ... none. ..... just don't have the desire to hand write these things. ..
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  • @MrsBad13 I only sent to people who gave a gift as I had already thanked my other guests enough through all the "extras" at the wedding.  I did, however, send TY cards to those that came from out of town/it was a taxing effort to make it to our wedding.  

    Cha
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  • Ok..cause I was thinking like you didn't gift u don't get an extra thank you...u got cupcakes to go , candy buffet and a cd..ill holla lol...I feel ya Cha lol
  • LeciaBLeciaB member
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    edited June 2013
    MrsBad13 said:
    Ok..cause I was thinking like you didn't gift u don't get an extra thank you...u got cupcakes to go , candy buffet and a cd..ill holla lol...I feel ya Cha lol
    Im thinking this 1000% and maybe you can throw a bill for their plate in there while we are at it

    Daisypath - (PNE7)
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    Lol yall are hilarity, this was my least favorite part too. Ugh. I wrote thank you cards for ppl for coming to the wedding that they got the day of and the gift givers got the personalized ones. worst part ever!
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