So long story short....
My FI and I went out for his birthday with some friends (who also happen to be in the bridal party). One of his friends who is a groomsman was hitting it off with a friend of mine who is a bridesmaid. Anyway, when my FI's friend and I were outside talking he asked if I would give him a honest answer about something. I said sure. He then asked me "so what are my chances of F**king that broad tonight?" I was offended by this because I found it very disrespectful. Plus the girls in the bridal party are very close to me. I mean after all my own sister is not in the bridal party. Not knowing exactly what to do I told my FI and he said he would handle it. My FI told him that behavior and kind of talk is not acceptable and that he would have to apologize to me.
I got a message from this guy on Facebook today and he did not apologize, made a joke of the situation and said he thinks there is an underline issue here. He is also the type of guy who uses the fact he is in the Army as an excuse for a lot of things.
I want to say something to him but I don't know what to say. My FI thinks it is time to say something to this guy myself too.
What would you say to him. I want to let him know this was not ok by any stretch of the imagination