African American Weddings

Follow Up: Postponing My Wedding

Follow Up to My "So Ladies...My Wedding May Be On Hold (Yet Again)" thread:

So The Dude and I had a talk this morning in all calmness.  We are postponing the wedding.  It's decided.  We will be setting a new date once his treatment is completed successfully.   I pray to be able to announce that new date later this year.  The JOP is on the table and we have decided that if (or when) we decide to go to the JOP we are going to keep it to ourselves.  We still want the "thrill" of it for our family and guests.  We will tell them after the fact.  

I feel so much better today.  The decision, while hard, has brought a peace to the both of us.  The Dude knows he is and always is first in my life (after God of course) as is my family on the whole. His thinking otherwise really had me depressed and down.   

Tomorrow the vendors will be told.  I will let you know how they react as well as the reaction of the BP.  We know we lose all the deposits but it is what it is.  Taking care of The Dude is all that matters. ( Oh, let it be known I won't crying over the venue.  That spot turned into a mess.  Good riddance.  LOL! )

Look ya'll I've been a resident of this board since FOREVER!  UGH!  I feel like a squatter now but I promise I will be off this board sooner rather than later.  What I need ya'll to do is send "CANCER FREE" and "I DO, I DO" dust my way and send LOTS and LOTS of it please.  And I appreciate all of you who are praying for us.  

  



Love is the ultimate superpower.   
It can make you weak and strong simultaneously.  



Re: Follow Up: Postponing My Wedding

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards