My fiancé and I are going through the process right now. We knew we were going to do it all along, but waited to the last minute (21 days until the wedding). We are both pretty much in agreement with how it will read, but it still is a highly emotional process and I regret leaving it until this late in the game. For the most part, the pre-nup is to protect me as I have more assets and to figure out how he buys into my house. We are also looking at estate issues in case one of us pass away. He has two kids. I have none. How do we make it fair for both of us, etc. Did anyone else out there go through the pre-nup process? Did it cause hardship and angst or can I hope to have it be pain-free?