My bf and I are talking about getting engaged and where we would want to have a wedding which has raised some questions. I was born and raised in Ohio and he was born and raised in NY but we both live together in VA. My parents insist we must get married in OH "because the wedding is suppose to happen wherever the bride is from" or so says tradition. BF and I disagree with this and think we should be able to get married wherever we want. I was just curious if other think this is an old tradition as well.