Need some advice fellow brides and I will try to make a long story short.
Within my Fi's and my circle of friends we had two of them start dating a while back. The male friend in this case is my FI's best man and a good friend of mine. The female was a good friend of mine as well. Well in February (3 months before my FI and I got engaged) they broke up and it was pretty nasty. He was gracious about it, but she called me and went off with all of these nasty things about him for a couple weeks following the breakup. Every conversation we had was about him and how terrible he is and also began starting VERY nasty rumors about him. I tried to give her some space but then she went off on me on how I don't care about what she is going through. I told her that from her post of Facebook that I wanted to give her some space because she asked for it. She said I should have known that she wasn't meaning me in that post. Now she is dating someone new and seems happy. We stopped talking as much right after the break up because I did not like listening to such mean and nasty comments and rumors about my FI's now best man. She was always asking me things about him (i.e. is he happier now, etc...) I also found out that my FI is not too fond of her and would prefer her not to be at the wedding so an awkward situation does not occur. He thinks she is rude, mean and controlling. I also found out that she happens to show up where the guys are when they are hanging out. I am not sure what to do in this case. I have some BM's saying to invite her while I have others saying not to. I don't want to have something happen at the wedding, but I am also wanting and trying to mend the friendship and not inviting her would pretty much kill that.
Any advice?
