Hi everyone! So my boyfriend and I have had some serious discussions about marriage, specifically about the ceremony. He is Catholic, I am not. I am not baptized, so from what I understand, our marriage would not be sacramental. We have discussed me going through the classes to become Catholic, however as of right now we have decided against it because I would be doing it just for him, and not because I want to, and that of course doesn't feel right to either of us because it wouldn't be real and I would essentially be lying.
My concern is, if the marriage is not sacramental, in the Catholic faith, would he go to hell? The religion I was raised in, I don't believe in hell, so I don't think he would, but how would it be in the Catholic faith?
Another question - I have no problem having the ceremony in his church and having a full Catholic wedding, but what exactly does a Catholic wedding entail when one person is not Catholic?