I'm wondering if anyone else is having the issues my fiance and I are having!? Our own immediate family is giving us a lot of grief about having a destination wedding! To the point where it's causing family fighting! I feel that it's very selfish of them to do this to us because this is what we want for our wedding and we're giving 2 years notice. I feel that 2 years is VERY fair, am I right? I understand that a destination wedding (either Mexico or Jamaica most likely) is expensive, and I know money doesn't grow on trees, but for our own immediate family to tell us NO right off the bat is really hurtful. Is anyone else experiencing this? What do you do to handle it? Its really putting a damper on our plans and our excitement. We want to book something within the next 6 months, but it's getting to the point where we're thinking about going all by ourselves to whatever destination we choose and having a small nothing wedding here in AZ but that's not what we want ultimately. Please someone out there tell me you're having this issue too!?