A relative is having a destination wedding in a few weeks. Right there on the invitation, it stated, "cash bar only". I was a little tiffed, but said I'll suck it up and go to the wedding. Hubby and I are spending $2,500 to attend said wedding!
I just happen to look inside the invitation envelope, where I found a slip of paper that said "a monetary contribution towards our honeymoon would be great". Seriously?! Honestly, if I saw this earlier I would have declined the invitation.
Now, I am refusing to give cash and want to buy a gift, even though I have no idea what they would want/need (they don't have a registry). Hubby says to forget it and just give cash. Should I? Or just be spiteful and buy whatever?