I just got engaged a few days ago, and we planned on the wedding to be July of 2015. I know that gives me plenty of time to choose a bridal party, but it's seeming like such a daunting task!! I have two very close friends that i've considered to be my MOH, but i want to make sure i make the right decision. On one hand, my friend K. that i've known the longest (12 years), visited with most often, and the first i told i was engaged, but is incredibly shy and passive and has difficulty making any decisions and has no idea how to plan. On the other hand, my friend M. i've known for about 8 years, done all my extra activities with (sports and such), who is very kind and considerate and loves to plan parties and things and is organized to the max. Would it be rude of me to pick M. because she's a good friend who i know i can trust with helping me plan the wedding? I want them both in my wedding party, as either a BM or MOH.
Did anybody else have big wedding dilemmas like this? How did you choose a MOH? My mother is no help since she had her sister as her MOH, but i have two that are very close in age so it would be unfair of me to pick just one. Any advice is appreciated!