Hi! We were initially planning to have an adults-only wedding, but have been toying with the idea of inviting some kids. My nephew will be the ring bearer (age 2), and is the only child that will definitely be at the wedding. I also have a god son (age 7), and I think his parents are expecting an invite. Thing is, if I invite my god child, I think my fiancee's parents will have a problem with his eight second cousins (ages 2-10) not being invited.
Would it be terrible if I don't invite my godson? On the other hand, if I do, there will be two kids invited on my side, and none on my fiancee's side. Do I then have to invite all of the second cousins?
Appreciate the help!