I think I have a dilema here. I'm a plus sized bride, size 28, and I'm getting married in a little over a year. I've been getting the "so are you going to lose any weight for the wedding" questions recently and I'm not sure how I want to respond. While I'm a size 28 I don't eat particularly unhealthy, and exercise semi regularly. Recently I had this crazy idea that I was going to lose over 100lbs before my wedding, but I realized that I was being unrealistic. My fiance keeps saying how much he loves my curves and loves me just the way I am. I know it's common for brides to try and lose weight before the wedding, but should I bow to the pressure? Or should I just keep eating healthy and working out and see what happens? Also, if I decide I'm not going to worry about my weight how do I politely tell people that it's none of their business?