Ok, so I am 16 days away from wedding and today my FMIL says she wants to have a girls get together the week of the wedding. I said sure no problem but that i would perfer it to be on a weekend rather than a week day night since i do work during the week. Then she says that I could invite my mom and have her girls come and that is it. I said i would like for my girls to come as well. Im talking like 5 of my girls (aunts & 2 cousins). Then she says, "well you cant invite your girls except for your mom. I said i would rather not go if my girls cant come. I mean wtf, i was so pissed i couldve said something to her but had to bite my tongue. How do i handle a person who is pushy?