Is it against etiquette to leave the best man's wife off the shower guest list? Without going into too much detail, this lady is a wench. She has treated me and my child (yep, my 4 yr old) terribly in the past. She is most certainly not a close friend or a relative. She is complaining that she wasn't invited to her hubby (the BM) and everyone else. But, honestly, every other thing she's ever been invited too she has declined or just not bothered to RSVP at all. All that put together, the only reason she possibly could have wanted an invite was for appearances. I wasn't about to have my sister waste postage on this chick for an invite she would likely decline.
Was I in the wrong?