This will be my second wedding and FI's first, because my parents already paid for one wedding they are not paying for this one. We decided to ask my future in-laws if we could use their backyard for our wedding to try to save some money. Not only did they agree but are extremely excited that the wedding will be at their house. On top of their excitement they offered to pay for the caterer, officiant, and photographer. When we had this discussion we all agreed that we wanted to use the same photographer that they had at FSIL's wedding in 2010. Unfortunately, this photographer has not only moved across the country but also stopped doing weddings altogether. So now I am trying to come up with other options to present to FI's parents since they are paying for this.