I'm getting married in 2 weeks, this is a second marriage for both of us. We are having my 9 year old daughter as a flower girl and I bought her a necklace to wear for the wedding and be a keepsake. We are having his 9 year old son be our ring bearer but we are stuck on what to get him as a remembrance. All the gifts I look up are for much younger ring bearers, any suggestions?